Working with Student Athletes
This is my third semester
as a Writing Fellow at Nova Southeastern University and I have worked with a handful of
student athletes in my classes. I have dealt with both
dedicated student athletes and, well, the student athletes who don’t bother
coming to sessions or responding to my emails.
This semester, I
have 3 student athletes in my writing fellows class. Two of them actually want to receive help
and only mention their athletic responsibilities when a scheduling conflict
occurs (one of the students’ teams requires travel time this semester) – and in
these cases, they mention setting dates to reschedule immediately. These
student athletes have attended every session on time and come prepared because
they know we have limited time to work.
On the other hand,
I also have a student athlete in the class named Kelly*. Kelly missed her first two sessions with me
this semester. In class, she would apologize for missing the meetings and
promise to reschedule but never did.
During a class
workshop about three weeks ago, my task was to walk around from group to group
and assist as necessary. After about 30 minutes, Kelly called me over to ask
when I was available the next day. She said that she needed to meet with me
twice before the final paper was due on Friday to make up for missing our last
two sessions. It was Wednesday.
In all honesty, I
didn’t really know what to make of Kelly. Until that class period, there had
been little to no communication between us. I had met with Kelly’s group member
for those two out-of-class workshops, but Kelly never made any kind of effort
to reschedule or even let me know that she wouldn’t be there.
I told Kelly that
I had an open office hour the next day, but she said it would not work for her
because she had two team meetings and study hall. She looked a little defeated.
Then, Kelly started telling me about her schedule. She told me that on top of
her classes, she was having complications with her team, getting certified by
the NCAA, and completing her required study hall hours every week.
I remembered a
conversation we had in my Writing Center Studies class about having our sessions
count towards an athlete’s study hall hours. As soon as I told Kelly this, we
scheduled an individual 30-minute meeting (which, as we discussed, would
replace 30 minutes of study hall) during my office hour the very next day.
Then, I explained what she would need to do and which department she needed to contact.
The next day,
Kelly arrived five minutes before her scheduled appointment. She brought me her
study hall contact’s information and was surprisingly productive throughout our
meeting – perhaps because she now saw the session as an opportunity to get
ahead in the midst of her hectic schedule. Further, Kelly
was focused and knowledgeable about her paper topic so we got straight to work.
Thirty minutes later, Kelly filled out her session report form and thanked me
for meeting with her. She said she had a better understanding of the assignment
and more direction to continue working.
Unfortunately, athletes
don’t always have the best reputations in our academic communities.
“Collaborative work, competitive students, counter-narrative: A tale from out
of (the academy’s) bounds” states that college culture tends to stereotype
student athletes based on what we see in the general media or hear around
campus. I will admit, before our meeting, I had lumped Kelly into a category with
other student athletes who use their sport as an excuse to miss class and
writing fellow workshops.
This session taught
me something, though – it reminded me that I should always stay open to talk with
my students and hear their stories. Until Kelly told me what was going on with
the team, I had no way to help her. Once I had something to go by, we could
make a plan together. So, the next time I am faced with tutoring an “uninterested”
student athlete, I will remember that, like any student, they face their own
pressures.
*name of student athlete was changed to protect privacy.
I really appreciated reading this post. It was very informative and a great reminder to not judge another until you have seen life from their perspective and "walked a mile in their shoes."
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