To The Parents of...
As a father, when I see mail with those words in the address block, I’m expecting one of my children’s names. Since I’m also an undergrad student, though, Texas A&M occasionally still sends something to my house, addressed “to the parents of Phillip Garner.” They’re usually advertisements for apartment complexes, or telling my concerned guardians how well the school is keeping me safe. At 35, though, my mother and father haven’t received a piece of mail on my behalf in a long time. With my wife making jokes about mail tampering and “telling my mom,” I usually open and deal with the content myself; it’s not like I’m going to call up the school and complain, but those letters are indicative of a problem I deal with daily. I am an anomaly in the university setting. I am the infamous “nontraditional student,” something the university doesn't know quite how to deal with. For traditional students, university life can fill quickly with...